Sometimes life gets you the unexpected moments of life, you even don't know how it comes to you and neither you are aware with what you should do about it. The truth is that life also gets ourselves messed up most of the times and we feel to lose the spirit for survival. During such moments we just got to have patience as our life keeps on testing our patience and the worst of all is that most of the times we starts hating ourselves and cursing our luck for everything happening in our life.

Mostly we become the victim of the simultaneous defeats which makes us loose our confidence and we even fall apart and feel hopeless. We don’t even try to look forward or try it again. These defeats makes us feel miserable for ourselves and sometimes even we think of ending our life, even some do commit suicide.

 Friends let me tell you, life is tough but is not that difficult as you find it. Surving it is an art which you must need to be aware of it. One has to be tough and sensible to survive it even in hardships cause life is meant to crop up the consequences for us and we need to win over it because that's the rule of survival. You can't reduce the consequences and sorrows in life but atleast you can make yourself strong enough to survive it even in the worst of the condition and gain enough strength to rise up again after the numerous falls with the same spirit and enthusiasm for victory and survival. 

The key to live happy is to live with what you have and accept what you get. Living in the world of dreams and want is not bad but comparing it with your actual life and regretting it is bad, cause you yourself makes your life miserable by doing so. high dreams are of no worth if they are dragging your present to a miserable runway. This is one of the major cause of frustration among the teens in this age. I would suggest them to follow their dreams and work towards it, cause nothing can be achieved in few hours until you have a magic wand which you can swirl around charming few spells. Head step by step setting a particular goal and try to work towards it and always be particular with what you actually want. 

Another factor apart from lifely issues is the "TRUST" and "EXPECTATION" thing. It actually is the main source of the pain and heartbreaks either it be your friend or a girl. Yes, the truth is never actually expect much from anyone. I know it's quiet difficult to  expect nothing in return of whatever you did for others but friend let me tell you having less expectations actually makes your life simpler and happier. Expecting a little in return of whatever you do actually makes you feel good when you receives more than what you expected and even if you get very little, it will also be normal for you cause you didn't expexted much. So, you will not be hurt much and thus neither you will have much desperation. Desperation is just directly propotional to the expectations. If you do not expect much you will not even be much desperate and that automatically deacreases your pain and worries.

And at the last it comes the studies and carrier which worries you. Not scoring good marks and failing in the entrances doesn't actually mean that you are meant for nothing or lac the spirit for survival. People have different field of interest, follow it and try to explore your carrier in your field of interest. Fo more about this section related to interests and passion follow up my next upcoming blog that is www.socialpost2byadisinha.blogspot.com. Life is not meant to end it up. We all are gifted with a single life which we need to utilize and live it to fullest that we can. Don't spoil your life for the craps, just have the courage that you are the perfect one and rise up everytime you fall. The success is yours. Life is one, so Live it Loud!!!

 Author- ADITYA SINHA